Just Say “No”

9 Nov

The first step to becoming a real bad girl is learning to say no. You just gotta do it. Learn to say no to your parents (they certainly have sai it to you). Say it to your boss, your lover, even to your friends, You can’t beging to get what you want if your’re busy givingeveryone else what theywant. Image

The first few times you say no, you this crazy little adrenaline rush. 

Note to self: Natural deodorant? No.

If it seems terrifying or impossible to say no to the people in your life, start slowly to practice and build your confidence. 

  • When the dental hygienist asks if you’re having a good day, just say “No.” (Even if you are.)
  • If a guy at a coffeehouse approaches you and ask if he can share your, just say “No.” ( No explanations or apology needed.)

No Fear

Do you have the idea that it’s unladylike to want? Snap out of it! The second you start ignoring your desires, you’re a regular at the snooze bar of life. Don’t be afraid to want thing, to yearn, crave, or lust for anything. And don’t  be afraid to o after what you want. If you can’t satisfy your self then how can you expect any one else to satisfy you?

Note to self: If you don’t follow through on your big ideas, someone else will. 

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One Response to “Just Say “No””

  1. Lafemmeroar November 11, 2012 at 11:27 am #

    Very thoughtful this line:

    If you can’t satisfy your self then how can you expect any one else to satisfy you?

    I just love it! I really like the way your noodle rolls …

    BTW:

    Thank you for putting up the CCC badge on your site. 🙂 I don’t have you listed as a member, but just leave me a comment that you’d like to join and I’ll do a link to your blog. :):)

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