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Just Say “No”

9 Nov

The first step to becoming a real bad girl is learning to say no. You just gotta do it. Learn to say no to your parents (they certainly have sai it to you). Say it to your boss, your lover, even to your friends, You can’t beging to get what you want if your’re busy givingeveryone else what theywant. Image

The first few times you say no, you this crazy little adrenaline rush. 

Note to self: Natural deodorant? No.

If it seems terrifying or impossible to say no to the people in your life, start slowly to practice and build your confidence. 

  • When the dental hygienist asks if you’re having a good day, just say “No.” (Even if you are.)
  • If a guy at a coffeehouse approaches you and ask if he can share your, just say “No.” ( No explanations or apology needed.)

No Fear

Do you have the idea that it’s unladylike to want? Snap out of it! The second you start ignoring your desires, you’re a regular at the snooze bar of life. Don’t be afraid to want thing, to yearn, crave, or lust for anything. And don’t  be afraid to o after what you want. If you can’t satisfy your self then how can you expect any one else to satisfy you?

Note to self: If you don’t follow through on your big ideas, someone else will. 

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Hey, What Do You Want?

3 Nov

What do you really want from your life? Are you sure? How do you know? What makes your mouth water?What makes you sweat? Do you want it? Or do you want to run from it?

Most of us have been brainwashed into thinking we want a lot of things, weird thing, things we don’t even like. We’re supposed to want puffy lips, a pretty little nose, a skinny and shapely figure, breast large enough to nourish a small country, hair in very few, very small, very odd-shaped patches. We’re supposed to want a tall handsome, successful husband, 2.5 children who are gifted but not annoying so, a big house, a snazzy car, stock options, and a Prozac-free 100% positive attitude.

We’re supposed to want to be great at what we do but not so great that we intimate anyone. We’re supposed to want lost of things for other people but want too much for ourselves. We’re supposed to want to be good girls. Whose lame idea was that?

By the time we’re old enough to make our own choice, most of us don’t even know what we want. We’ve been going with the flow, following the rules and drinking the Kool-Aid for so long that we’ve lost touch with our own deepest desires. What’s worse- we don’t even know what we want.

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