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The Perfect Blind Date

18 Dec

ImageIf you’re not meeting the right kind of people, you ma be stuck in a kiddie-size pool-and every bad girl deserves an Olympic array of lanes and choices. A blind date can be your driving board to the deep end.

The perfect blind date is short-not in stature but in length. Ten minutes is all you need to know if you want to see him again or run for it. Why risk ruining an entire evening with a lose when you can end the pain in 10 minutes? Whether you’re meeting people online, thorugh the personal, or via your aunt Edna’s best friend’s nephew’s roommate, be sure to set it up as a 10-minute date in advance so he knows what to expect. If he’s eversuffered throught nightmare blind date before (and who hasn’t), he’ll be relieved to know you’re a shrewd operator.

The 10-minute Date

Arrange to meet at a public places, ideally a popular bar or cafe (Make sure a friend or coworker knows your plan and the guy’s name, just in case.)

  • Use an alias-just for kicks.
  • Order one drink.
  • Ask him only three questions:

What’s you’re favorite movie?

Where do you buy your shoes?

How do you define foreplay?

  • While listening to his answers, ask your self three questions: 

Do I want to kiss this guy?

Do I want to wake up naked next to this guy?

Do I want to have this guy’s children?

  • Look him up and down. 
  • Judge him all around.

If you like what you see and hear, take his phone number. (Do not give him yours, yet.) IF you don’t like what you see or hear, shake his hand and thank him for his time, or just give him a fake phone number. It’s that easy!!

  • Get out of there. 

For maximum efficiency, set up three or four of those 10-minutes sate for the same evening. You only have to dress and beauty-up once, and it’s much easier to compare and contrast when the options are fresh in your mind-like your own private Dating Game. 

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How to find your Badness

4 Nov

ImageThere’s a bad girl inside every girl. You may not feel it. You may believe it. But she’s there. Dig up some old photo albums form your childhood. Look at pictures of yourself when you were 10 or 2, seven or eight, four or five. Go bask as far as you have to go to find the impish grin, the sparkly eyes, the girl in ridiculous outfits that only  she could love and appreciate. Look for the smirk, look for the fie, look for the little girl who didn’t know enough to be afraid of her own wants. When you findt her, your’ll know it. Being a bad girl isn’t about breaking the law. It’s about breaking the rules-and respecting yourself in the morning. 

Most people have a this crazy idea that you need some  special reason, skill, or power to be confident. Ridiculous! 

Can’t remember the last time you felt confident? Just strike a pose. Your body will remember the feeling will spread. The secret ingredient in your bad girl”tude is confidence. 

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